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	Instead of Private Messages Do you need to ask someone to read a post you made? Is there a spammer on the forum? Is there an administrative glitch? Please post this here. This is a new system - being used instead of the Private Messaging System. Moderator Official Helpers Group 1st Level	28	254	Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:10 pm JoelandKathy
	Here are Five time value announcements. Please open. Check out "THE EPIC" for our 2010 cruise! Tell us how you "found" this ministry. Donation link information and BestMarriage.com Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, CHeRIsh, Jan, Looney_Tunes	7	31	Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:41 pm JoelandKathy
	Today's news and updates Is there something Joel and Kathy want to communicate to everyone today? Open this forum to see. This is not necessarily for ongoing dialogue communications - it is only for information from Joel and Kathy. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Rebecca, CHeRIsh, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	64	739	Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:19 pm JoelandKathy
	Prayer Requests Need emergency prayer? Post here! Also, join the prayer time Fridays at 12:30 pm eastern time. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	175	1964	Wed Mar 17, 2010 11:10 pm Tigger
For Our First Time Guests! Welcome! Review this section first!
	PLEASE OPEN THIS SECTION FIRST: For Our Guests and First Time Visitors Welcome to our forum! Open this section first! Learn which catagories you can read without registering, TODD BENTLEY MARRIAGE comments, comments on BENNY HINN. How to get FREE EXCERPTS - 120 PAGES of "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" and more. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia	16	66	Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:48 pm dory
	Praise Reports PRAISE REPORTS! God has been doing AWESOME and WONDERFUL miracles in marriages - and He can do the same in yours! In addition to the many praise reports found in the books, newsletters and on the GodSaveMyMarriage.com website - there are many astounding testimonies in this section of the forum. Here you will meet many of the forum contributers and get to know a little bit of their story. PLUS - reading the many testimonies will fire up YOUR faith for YOUR marriage miracle! Marriage miracles take many forms - but God is always involved! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, Celia, Giving Hope, Pure in Heart	169	920	Sat Mar 06, 2010 12:56 pm KathyandJoel
	Favorite Posts by Various Authors and Favorite Posts on Certain Subjects Each helper can create a topic here, titled something like "Favorite posts by Tom, of Tom and Judy" - In this topic, the author can put copies of as many of their posts that are giving advice as they have time to copy to this section. This way, if you LOVE Rebecca's writings, or LOVE Judy's writings, or LOVE Quiverof4 writings, etc. you can read back to back posts by that particular author. The second "type" of topics in this section will be topics that are dedicated to certain issues. These will be a compilation of posts that are originally written to help someone in the other sections. For example, topics may be titled: "Posts addressing husband's whose wife is in an affair" or "Posts addressing a wife whose husband is in an affair" or "posts addressing blended family/step children issues" etc. This way, when someone has a certain problem, a helper can "draw" from this resource of archived letters to copy and paste some advice, and/or, more likely, a person will be able to be directed to check the entire topic out to get an overview of advice given to others who are having the same issue. This is a brand new section, as of March 14, 2008, and it will take time for it to get built up. Our helpers are all so busy giving help to hurting people, that no one has much time to spend archiving their writings - but, slow but sure. A post or two a day, and in a year, each helper can have a few hundred of their own writings in one long topic for people who LOVE their particular style of help. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Rebecca, Celia	96	609	Wed Mar 17, 2010 11:53 pm Looney_Tunes
	How to Use the Forum General instructions on how to use the Joel and Kathy message boards. This is also where we discuss the ground rules of our Message Boards. We do things differently than most message boards. This is a ministry to bring healing to hurting marriages. It is not a free-for-all for marriage paradigm debates. We want people to become "helpers". Read here to see if you qualify. It is not too hard, but there are some specific things that you must do in order to offer help and advice to others on the forum. Everyone can ask for help, regardless of current status. That is what this marriage forum is here for! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	11	29	Sun Jan 03, 2010 3:28 pm JoelandKathy
Livin' it and Lovin' It! - Serious Help Toward an Outrageously Happy Marriage! Registered Users Only
	Ministry to couples who are working together to build an Outrageously Happy Marriage! Ministry from Joel and Kathy; along with others whom they have helped. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, Celia, Giving Hope, Looney_Tunes, Pure in Heart	148	13802	Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:36 am Looney_Tunes
	Ministry to women whose husbands are working against the marriage. (He has left the family on his terms, he is in an affair, or he is abusive and not interested in learning.) Ministry from Joel and Kathy; along with others they have helped. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, Celia, Giving Hope, Looney_Tunes, Pure in Heart	273	12388	Wed Mar 17, 2010 11:13 pm Tigger
	Senior Lovers! (Experienced Lovers? Accomplished? Wiser? Master Lovers? Lovers over 65! By special request! This forum is for Senior Lovers! Married Couples who are over 65. Yes, this ministry is for you, too! You can have an OUTRAGEOUSLY HAPPY MARRIAGE! with fun and fulfillment in EVERY aspect of your marriage! (Yes, the younger crowd can "peek" in at your posts and encourage you on to greatness! You can go to all of the other sections and encourage them on to greatness, too!) We are setting this up so that folks in this age bracket can easily find each other and share their stories/encourage one another! - Make friends! Sure, if you are a single senior, you are welcome to participate also! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	6	156	Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:36 pm Bob
	Ministry to men who are working to win their wife's heart back. (Wife is gone, or she is angry and bitter, or she is in an affair etc.) Ministry from Joel and Kathy; along with others they have helped. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, For Him For Her, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, UndyingTrust, Celia, Giving Hope, Looney_Tunes, Pebbles	274	15871	Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:11 am InHisImage
	Ministry to that wife whose husband is working to win her heart back Ministry from Joel and Kathy; along with others they have helped. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, Celia, Giving Hope, Looney_Tunes	88	7798	Thu Mar 18, 2010 12:52 am Pure in Heart
	Bringing Healing to Children by Living an Outrageously Happy Marriage! Parenting, in the context of having a healthy, healed, whole and happy marriage. As a husband and wife get healed, the healing trickles down to the kids. A happy marriage is a source of life and strength to children! Young children AND grown children are healed as they observe dad and mom having a wonderful relationship. Let's talk about parenting here! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Celia, Looney_Tunes	35	351	Wed Feb 17, 2010 2:10 pm Kay
	The Other Side of the Fork in the Road - For Men and Women It has been almost four years since first releasing "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" We have been conducting Weekend Marriage Intensives for over 18 months as of June, 2008. So many couples have received astounding miracles of restoration and love, going on to live an Outrageously Happy Marriage. Occasionally, there is a husband who simply decides that he is NOT going to live an outrageously happy marriage. His wife has given her "all" in doing what she can to encourage a restoration and an outrageously happy marriage. In the end though, her husband absolutely refuses to participate in that restoration. This wife now has a "place" that describes her situation. Her husband is no longer in that place of "Working Against the Marriage." Instead, he has DECIDED not to have a marriage. This forum is for women who are on the new "Fork in the Road!" They have given there all - and it has not been enough. She has filed for divorce or a legal seperation that is probably heading toward a divorce. Her husband is not trying to win her heart back - and instead, he has made it completely clear that he is never, ever going to participate in a marriage restoration. Perhaps he filed for divorce. This section is for that wife who is embarking on the sometimes exciting, sometimes scary future as an unmarried woman (now or in the future) and as a single mom. Why isn't she in the "singles" section? Simple. We recommend that a wife stay private and seperate to the Lord for a period of two years after being physically seperated from her husband. She needs time to stabalize - and to get her feet solidly on the ground in her new life. For that wife who has spent herself in trying to have a restored marriage; God has you in mind. He seems to go to GREAT LENGTHS to bring you to a place of peace, security and supply asap. We will love to walk with you in this season of your life! In addition to getting help and encouragement in your journey - we would also like to hear your testimonies of how God has supernaturally supported and undergirded you as He has had to "step in" in the place that your husband has vacated. We are also opening this section for a husband who has been unable to win his wife's heart back - Most of the men we are working with are still in that "place" of working to win their wife's heart back - but there are and will be ones in the future who need a place to go to for that "in between" part of their life. They have not been able to win their wife's heart back after two years of dedication, following what we prescribe - or their wife is remarried and they are not interested in posting as a "single." They just want support for the solo journey they are living now. Men who post here must of course be FULLY embracing what we teach and believe about marriage and must have paid a price to attempt to win their wife's heart back working in our system of "Men who are working to win their wife's heart back". If a "new guy" has an ex-wife who is remarried, he can post here - but he has to be reading both books, watching the DVD set and we would recommend his attending an Intensive as a single man asap to get everything "straight" in his mind and heart concerning his past marriage(s) and to prepare for a future one. Men, feel free to write to us to ask if we feel that you should post in this section.. or post your full story here, asking for us to look at it and decide if you belong in this section. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes, Pure in Heart	36	1760	Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:26 am Looney_Tunes
Private Sections
	Private: For Men Only and a few sample Men's Call Recordings First: We are going to put links to a few of the men's calls. We think that EVERY man should be a part of the men's calls. Listen to these recordings to see what you are not benefitting from three times each week. Second: This private area for men is a section for husband's who may need to just "vent" or get help on things that might hurt a wife's feelings to see posted on a public forum. Request special permission from God's Mighty Soldier, Largeone50 or from JoelandKathy to gain access. This is not a place to vent when the husband, is self gratifying, into porn, has a girlfriend, spending money and not telling her, lying or any host of other things. Remember men, if you are not living right, you CANNOT expect your wife to be a great wife - her highly advanced "receptor" brain is reacting to you even if she does not know "what" you are doing. Do not bother venting here if you are still into these things. You are causing it. However, if you are truly changing and you are going through the painful process of death - and need a place to vent, then you can do so here. This is a healing process. Also, a wife is not going to be perfect immediately (unless she is like Kathy, perfect in every way!) If you are in pain, you don't "dump" that on her. You can dump it here. When you are mature and Christlike and she is healed and you are both happy, it will all be in the past anyway. Warning. Toxic dumping ground here. Smile. Moderators JoelandKathy, largeone50	23	180	Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:09 pm HerDensity
Showing Our Love for Joel & Kathy. Open to Guests.
	THOUGHTS, MESSAGES and PRAYERS FOR JOEL & KATHY and FAMILY. A forum to share with Joel and Kathy our thoughts and prayers at the one year mark of the passing of their "almost 14 years old" daughter, Shekinah Glory Davisson - September 17, 2008. One year ago now. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	22	610	Tue Mar 16, 2010 8:08 pm nemo
Singles and Teens - Registered users only
	Singles Forum - advice and make friends! You can save yourself years of grief by making correct choices before you get married. In this forum, you can ask advice for current relationships and get to know other singles who want to have a marriage based on the biblical principles of "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" Come for advice and come to make friends! Married helpers OF COURSE are welcome to chime in and offer help, encouragement, guidance and advice. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Miss Elizabeth, Mr. Darcy, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	64	899	Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:26 pm goingsolo
	Seeds of Wisdom - Chris Davisson - Joel and Kathy's 19 year old son This is a forum for Chris and the other Davisson kids, and other young people - and anyone for that matter! - to make posts on a variety of subjects that might not have to do only with marriage. It can be anything - current issues, parents, parenting, advice about boyfriends and girlfriends etc. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Godkindoflife4, Celia	23	272	Thu Jul 23, 2009 9:12 pm Godkindoflife4
Other Issues of Life and other Victories! - For registered users only.
	Various Issues of Life and Other Life Victories This is for various issues of life; all of which affect marriage, but none of which are marriage specific. For example: "Your salvation experience - How did you meet the Lord and get saved?" - "Have you come through a serious life issue successfully? - Issues such as incest, your child/children have been molested/or were victims of incest?" - "Did you marry a non-Christian and later realized why God says not to marry an non-Christian?" This section is for life-stories that will be of deep interest to readers, but are not specific to a marriage. If a marriage issue begins to be discussed here, please move it to the forum that it would fit in. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Celia, Looney_Tunes	94	1107	Mon Feb 15, 2010 4:06 pm Kay
	Business Opportunities We feel like couples should strive to be together as much as possible. Therefore, we do encourage couples to build a business together; on a part time basis; something they can do together; that will ultimately/possibly result in being a full time income. The goal would be to replace your "regular" job incomes so that you can live, love, laugh, play and work together, full time, all the time - without being tied to that time clock at work. This is a "perfect world" and may not be attained by all - but it is a great goal to work toward. Yes, in this section, you may share ideas and business opportunities that you are doing that may contribute to reaching this "perfect" world in a couples financial life. Feel free to discuss network marketing, import/export, crafts - or any other potential income producing business ideas. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, CHeRIsh, Jan, Celia	23	144	Wed Feb 24, 2010 9:20 am TimothyPaul
	Health, Exercise and Nutrition For people who have a passion to encourage others in health and nutrition. Share your motivation and knowledge that might help our readers live longer, more full and happier lives by addressing health, exercise, weight and nutrition. Yes, you may introduce your favorite health and nutrition network marketing product. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	25	373	Tue Feb 09, 2010 10:30 pm JoelandKathy
Social Section: Prayer, Daily Devotionals, Happy Birthdays, Happy Anniversaries, Where do you live?
	Help Create Daily Devotionals This is not just a Joel and Kathy only devotional. This is a brand new section of the forum. What did you read in the Word today that spoke to you? What is exciting you today about Jesus? About our Heavenly Father? About the Holy Spirit? Each day will start a new "topic" in this forum. Anyone and everyone can post something that the Lord blessed them with during your daily time with the Lord in the Word of God or in prayer. This does not have to be marriage related - it can just be your love for the Lord. Yes, it can be marriage related too - if you found something exciting in the Word or if the Lord spoke something to you exciting about marriage - then share that. Just read a scripture that filled you with joy, added to your insights, or blessed you in any other way? Share it here! The goal of this forum? So that everyone can "add" their part of a daily "Body of Christ" that is being built by what each person supplies. Some folks are new in the Lord and may not do a daily time in the Word - this will be a great place that they can go to each day to read what others are "hearing" and "seeing" from the Word and from the Lord! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan	93	423	Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:38 am mbracht
	Where do you live? This forum is just for anyone who would like to list what town or area they live in? Subject line should be simply "Cleveland, Ohio area" for example - and then anyone who lives in that area can post a reply letting you know that they also live in that area. Dori and Nemo, LargeOne and Aslan's Child, Kay and Bob and others have already taken opportunities to hook up for fellowship. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Looney_Tunes	46	150	Sat Feb 20, 2010 11:53 pm DAR122357
	Holiday Greetings ~ Merry Christmas, Happy New Year! Happy Birthday, Happy Anniversary & Happy Valentines Day! Want to say a "Happy Birthday" to your honey! Happy Anniversary to someone on this forum? How about "Happy First Anniversary of our Weekend Marriage Intensive!" Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Celia, Looney_Tunes	56	733	Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:45 am Livia
Espanol! For our Spanish Speaking Readers!
	Espanol! NUEVO! Spanish! New! Esta es una nueva seccion para todas las personas de habla hispana quienes necesitan ayuda en su matrimonio. Las ediciones en espanol de uno o ambos de nuestros dos libros estaran a su disposicion en este verano! Propage esta noticia! --------- Si usted necesita ayuda para registrar o para ordenar libros manda un mensaje a journey.thrulife@yahoo.com o puedes llamar 334-447-3722. -------- This section is in all spanish. Someone who cannot speak english will need help registering - but can read this section without registering. Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, wpaweave, Tito, Celia, Angelica Bello	14	46	Fri Feb 06, 2009 3:40 pm Celia
Past Sections That Were Not Getting Fresh Posts
	Homeschool and Marriage In honor of the many families that we have who do homeschooling, we wanted to open a section for you to converse about your marriage and how "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" brings positive change to the life of HomeSchooling families. The principles are the same for all couples - but homeschooling does have some unique situations that are specific. Here you can find support and encouragement for homeschool families in one place. This is a brand new forum begun in mid-February, 2009. You do not have to be a homeschool family to interact and offer help. This is for everyone - just an easy way for homeschool couples to support each other in one spot. Spread the word! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Looney_Tunes	7	57	Sat Oct 31, 2009 5:04 pm BlessingHim
	Past News and Updates and more that is still valid today! Today's News and Announcements has become quite "busy". This new section is for us to move a lot of important information that needs to stay available that was formerly in "Today's News and Announcements" Be sure to look the subject lines over and read the posts that interest you! Moderators JoelandKathy, KathyandJoel, dory, Kay, Jan, Celia, Looney_Tunes	22	128	Fri May 22, 2009 2:21 pm Joyful50
Marriage Mentoring Phone Call Recordings
	Men's Call Recordings This is a private access forum for the Men's Group. We conduct three calls per week for men who are working to win their wife's heart back and some men are involved who are with their wife but want to get more input and direct help on these special calls. The group is $100 per month and covers all three calls - and access to these recordings to review calls or listen to missed calls. Moderators HerDensity, Lucky He's not Earl	31	38	Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:05 pm HerDensity
	Women's Group Call Recordings This is a private access forum for the Women's Group. Kathy conducts one call each week. The call is to help those wives whose husbands ARE working to become great husbands.. and she needs some help in how to respond warmly and in how to correctly hold him accountable to change when he misses it. Kathy did this PERFECT and she is the EXPERT! Every wife whose husband is in process of change needs to be part of this call. Don't let your progress as a couple to be slowed by your lack on knowledge of how to properly relate to a husband who is working to change. Go for the Gold and don't settle for less. You don't want to take any longer than necessary to get to that HAPPY place - so let Kathy help you to do your part effectively! The women's group is $25 per month HOWEVER, if your husband is paying $100 per month for the men's group, then you are COVERED for the women's group. In other words, you don't have to be paying $100 plus $25 per month. $100 covers it all. The $25 covers your group call once each week with Kathy and gives you access to these recordings to review calls or listen to missed calls. Please ask us to add you to this group via a PM to joelandkathy Moderators dory, HerDensity	11	13	Mon Mar 08, 2010 9:13 pm HerDensity
	Couples Marriage Conference Call Recordings These are recordings of the couples calls. This section will be available to everyone who is giving the minimum $10 per month gift to the ministry to access the group calls. NOTE: If you are already giving $25 or $100 for the Women's calls or Men's calls, then you are covered. You do not need to add $10 to the men's or woman's group. We just want everyone to carry a small bit of the load and $10 per month is like NOTHING for six calls per WEEK to get help for your marriage and to now access these calls on the forum. After you are on the automatic $10 per month giving using the giving link at the top of the forum, send a PM to joelandkathy and we will add you to this private group. (or if your household is already giving the $25 or $100 per month). Moderators dory, HerDensity, Lucky He's not Earl	85	138	Sun Mar 07, 2010 11:37 pm got hope
	Helper's Call Recordings Listing of helper's call recordings. If you have access to the helper's group, you will be added to this group to access recordings at some point. Be patient. We have not added calls yet. This is a new thing. You don't have to ask to be added to this section.. when we start getting recordings, someone will take time to add everyone. Moderator HerDensity	9	18	Wed Mar 17, 2010 9:32 pm HerDensity

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